I agree, she will only be attracted to a strong, confident man.
That is what I will work towards regardless of what she wants or does.
I guess the rewriting the marriage is not such a stretch when you examine their current behavior. She is so willing to overlook good things and manufacture bad things as a way to justify the choices she is making.
I will continue to be supportive and validate her feelings, but at some point don't you just have to call her bullsh!t what it is? I know arguing with her will get me nowhere that I want to be, but I think you can validate and defend yourself. "I am sorry that you feel that way. What would help?, because nothing could be further from the truth."
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis
