He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Good morning all!

B4 I left to shop kids called to say hi and H got on phone saying there was a friend issue w/D(12) and her writing some nasty things. A Mom, lets call her Mrs. S, stopped H to talk about our daughters - well Mrs. S --WAS-- friends with Ow - but now they are not talking. H & I agreed to talk to D when I got to apt later around 7.

Well shopping was ok - got sad and called a girlfriend who pepped me up saying this is not my fault and I have many friends who are out there who will support me and cannot stand the Ow at this point. I need to hold my head high and hang tight!

Shopped and stopped for sale grocery items - some to take to H apt - which he was grateful for. We sat done with D and together we talked about writing things down and the consequences of this. It all got resolved and I told H I would call Mrs. S. H and I had some positive convos and then the kids and I left for home. Good ending of the eve.

Got home and talked to Mr. S first since he is not so dramatic - he is sad of our sitch (we were all friends and they are neighbors of the Ow). He said Mrs. S is done with Ow for good now too she has told too many lies and is hurting too many people. Well I asked to speak to Mrs. S and we talked about what was going on and I asked why her and the Ow had a falling out. Mrs. S said she was lied to directly to her face multiple times and that she was being used by Ow. She is done with her.

My dilemma is that Mrs. S can VERIFY the extent that Ow was sleeping with at least one other guy (she had two she was seeing) while profressing her soul-mate love for my H. I know Ow talks her way out of it with H saying she's trying to make him jealous or she thought we (H & I) were trying to reconcile (yeah for a full two weeks in Jan - when they were supposedly apart) so I am not sure what Mrs. S can actually say if anything to H that will help. Mrs. S has offered to talk to H....

Do I mention to H that if he wants more of the truth to go and talk to Mrs. S???? Or do I just stay out of it and let Ow hang herself. I did not sleep at great last night because this new revelation is weighing heavily on my heart. I feel I am being sucked back into the VORTEX of drama again and I do not want to be there. What if anything do I say to the H???? Please help! I feel I can let him know the info without pushing him further away - but will it make a diff if I say it at all???

I just want to know what I did evey day of my life when I was not stressing over this sitch?????? I cannot remember life before Aug 9, 2006. I feel just stuck and just want out sometimes!