Life of Job

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Update,
Wife worked late tonight, got home while I was on the phone with SIL,(BIL is doing well, docs say oral chemo only to start and monitor with MRI every 3-4 months) I of course finished my convo, said I loved them and was thinking about them and did she want to talk to W? I then finished getting Ds to bed and went to bed while W was still on the phone. About 30 min later, W comes in the bedroom and jumps my sh!t about something I hadn't told her about, YET! I said I was going to tell her, but hadn't realized she was off the phone.

It didn't get ugly, but I ended up back out in the living room, dealing with the issue at hand, and looked at her and said "I am not the person you keep trying to make me out to be, I havn't changed. Of course I was going to tell you, and yes I am worried about it, but this is not an isolated incident. You have tried to make me out to be this person that is keeping things from you and doing things to spite you, when in fact I have done nothing but be supportive and concerned about YOU! and I really don't appreciate it."

She backed up and said how she misunderstood what I was saying, I said we have had a really hard time communicating and I could see how that was bothering her, but reiterated that I was not this evil person she was trying to paint a picture of, and never would be.

We have bad weather coming through tonight, so we sat and watched the news for awhile, then I got up and said I guess I will just wait to "hear the train, goodnight"(tornados, for those of you who don't live in the midwest) and left it at that.

This is really starting to piss me off! She has known me for 26 years, I have never been the type of person to do something out of spite, or pettiness. I realize it is her way of coping with the situation, but WTH!, stop and think about it for a min.

She wouldn't even look at me as I was telling her all of this. I hope against all odds that this can work out, but sometimes I wonder.