8, they tell me that God doesn't give you anymore than you can handle but sometimes you have to wonder "do I have to handle it all at once!". Over Christmas my Dad was the sickest I've ever seen him (still not well)and then my brother (whose M is hanging be a thread) lost his job, and not too long before that sister left her H (rightfully so!)and next a long time friend passed away from cancer and through it all I was still sitting here in my "love nest"! It sure felt overwhelming at times. Just remember you can only do what you can do, that's all anyone can ask. Be there for your kids and take care of YOU! Those are the priorities right now. We can all handle whatever comes our way in just one day, it's when we start looking at the days to come and the ones that have passed that it all becomes too friggin much! Stay focused on today. Take care, 8!!!