Dave,

Glad you are happy, and living "The Great Adventure." I've always said, a lot of this stuff seems to end up more "successful" if you define success not as "getting more sex and affection in your marriage," but rather as "learning to be a better person, and learning to cope better with the lack of sex and affection in your marriage."

I must admit, that doesn't much appeal to some of us, but I'm glad that it's working for you, as you seem very happy.

Choc.