I have not posted on my situation in over a year. I like to read but do not post too often.

Yes I did get through it. Husband has been home since July 2004 but affair didnt completely end until April 2006. Because they worked together in a small office he could not get away from it all and he was able to keep the affair a secret in the office. Because he worked so hard to do that he never completed ended it with OW while he was working there. Although it was a physical affair towards the end it was more emotional then anything. Once he quit and got away from her every day 5 days a week it finally blew up and ended.

We are working to rebuild and that has its good days and bad days as well.
Its not easy I know and somedays are more difficult then others.

It was very difficult and I wanted to walk away so many times but hung in there.