I had the A, how to regain trust?

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Would you give me the link? when I click on your Separation link, I don't see any posts for this month and the graphics are messed up.

But as I recall, you and H had separated, but were having some good times together and seems to be working toward reconciliation, right?

By the way, have you heard of the book "Controled Separation" or something like that? It's idea is that often marriages are saved by separation that gives both parties the space to deal without so much emotion with the issues. It suggests guidelines and rules to follow. From what I read of your sitch, it sounds like you did something like that.