He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Thanks for the input - I already told my Mom that the detailed discussions must stop - for if H does come back he will have so much to face with me alone and does not need the family issues too! I so regret going there but hindsight is 20/20. So do I let him do the house stuff or make him sit tight for a month or so???? What are your thoughts?