Anything by "Sailor" Bob Adamson, Adyashanti, John Wheeler (all of these people also have websites).
The Byron Katie stuff is Buddhist at the roots, although she doesn't call it that.
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My "goal" hasn't even gotten to the "wish my spouse would initiate more" stage as I'm clearly still at the "wish my spouse would recognize my 'want' as valid" stage.
I don't think your W has to recognize your want as valid in order to get her to act as though she believes it is valid. You've lost sight of the original goal: a BEHAVIORAL change. Changing her mind is not a worthy goal-- that is hopeless unless she changes it on her own. This would be the equivalent of asking a spouse to go to church with you even if she is not a believer, which I think is a perfectly reasonable request.
