I had the A, how to regain trust?

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You're right, no SHOULDS.

You're also a special person. I enjoy talking with you and I think you're on the right track. It sounds to me like you and your H will work it out.

Admission: I was starting to flirt with you in that paragraph. You are saying and doing what I'd like my W to do, and you are paying attention to me, which I'd also like my W to do. And, my W told me this last night, I am the biggest flirt she knows.

I think I'm just nice and know how to pay attention to people, men and women. But she is right, I do flirt in my way all the time.

I'm not a player, I don't have great lines, but I smile, compliment and listen. I'm pretty Evil. I think I might have stopped flirting with my W.

As for anger, I'd be surprised if some doesn't pop out of you eventually. Maybe just a little anger. If it doesn't though, great.