Killer advice from JustMe and Frank. Start living the stuff from the link Frank gave you. I have and it DOES work. My W and I were actually talking over the weekend about what I wuss I was and how that has changed all for the better....
She too has become really turned on when I interact in a group - even when there are other women - she loves the pursuit and creating attraction. Same when parenting or helping the kids. I've caught her staring at me when helping the kids do homework or even this weekend she commented about how she loves to watch me ski - I was helping her and our littlest (S4) on the slopes.
As a balance to the MakingherHappy stuff which totally works - if you have time, read "For Men Only" by Feldhahn. That talks a lot about "connections" and how to keep them. It is a good balance to the MHH stuff.
In the meantime, hang in there. No wussing out on us!
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.