However, I'd love to hear my wife say she is sorry for the A and leaving. What she should have done is tell me, before the A, that she wanted to try to fix things and what she thought the problems are, or divorce me first then go to the OM. Ah, who am I kidding, it still would have hurt like hell. At least she (and I) would be more honest if we did it that way.
Don't do the should thing because we all SHOULD have done things differently.
I am not angry at him. Maybe I should be, but I am more upset by what I've done to him. I am not blaming him because I did make a choice - a stupid choice, but it was me that made it....
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
because we all SHOULD have done things differently.
