I don't know if I'm one to give advice since my H is doing the same thing! He is crazy about getting house projects done. Like you said - he can't sit still. It seems like they are just so conflicted and need to keep their hands and minds busy. I wonder if it's a way for them to feel like they are still part of the home life, too... Is that good or is that bad?? I think it's good especially if you have been proving to him that life with you - the stable, wonderful woman - is something that any normal person would really want.