Can you give me a quick summary of The Monogomy Myth? Why does he like it? Just curious.
When he asked if you regretted it, you said 'somewhat'. Does that mean you don't regret it all? I commend your honesty if that's the case, and I hope your H does too.
I think I read most of Surviving an Affair.
I read a post on another thread this morning where the person who had the affair said that the A helped them realize how unhappy they were with their M. Now she has quit the A and wants to try to find the good things in her M. I bring this up because, again just curious, why did you have an affair?
My W did, IMHO, because she wasnt' happy. She felt trapped in a loveless M, and this guy, her first love, contacted her. The OM was a refuge, a place to run to. My W couldn't just leave, she needed somewhere to go and this OM provide it.
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
