and just because you don't see what you would label as "confusion" doesn't mean there isn't any there. Why else would she be crying in the bedroom and "mommy is just sad"? It is confused to think that going down this path is a smart thing to do. And since we can't get into their warped brains we don't know every thought. My best to you 8. What's up with your little guy?
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby