8,

If it's over, then it's over because you want it to be.

GAL makes you strong.

180's make her curious. It's a more authentic "manly" way of being. Read The Way of a Superior Man. Focus on your career, your mission/passion in life.

Keep doing GAL and 180.

You will get to the point where you can be fine without her. In fact, that might attract her: your being fun, interesting and not needy.

If she's not attracted. Then it's over.

If she is... then YOU get to decide. Nice change, eh?

Don't sweat the negative feelings. They are natural. They can change.

--Theoden