I FEEL she's noy thinking about me, or us. I just wonder what the best way to give her that time/space she needs is. Do I take myself out of the picture entirely using NC? It seemed like we made the most forward progress when I wasn't around.
You FEEL....I understand that, but you have to stop letting her actions affect your moods. Believe me, I have BEEN THERE, and DONE THAT!!!!!! Ask most of the folks on my current thread
What's NC?
Detach, give her the space she's asked for but don't be mean. If she wants to do something, do it - (dinner, etc.) but don't push her to do things......
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
