Listen to Login, he has some excellent advice. Try not to figure out motives. Suffice to say all of them are going to be 'me me me' based ok? Unless life threatening even your D is secondary right now. Sorry it sucks you can have my tee shirt.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
