Can I be the voice of reason and opposition? You have every right to feel the way you do. I'm actually concerned that you aren't cautious enough.

So here's this H or yours, who has reached out to you so much....two calls and some e-mails that ask you to come see him? Wow, that's really trying. (NOT) He has no job and what else doesn't he have? Meanwhile, you are indeed piecing; piecing your own life together from the ashes of the old one. You've worked on yourself and tried to be comfortable in your own skin. What does he have to offer you? Except maybe more of the same the next time he feels depressed. Does he want you or just a convenient life preserver when he's drowning? I'd be hesitant also.


In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.
Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
Theodore Roosevelt