Don't you guys think it will be SUPERFUN! to help me in my quest to have a fantastic sex life?
Not unless I get some, too.
This would be like the adopted orphan sending pictures to the orphans back in the home of all your fantastic Christmas presents (including the puppy).
Re your H's sudden burst of energy... I think y'all have been "in labor" with this separation/D for years. Now that the birth process is happening, I expect to see lots of energy from both of you. It makes perfect sense to me that he would take action. We 4's aren't lazy couch potatoes... we just have to wait until it makes sense for us to do something-- then we're bundles of energy. It's not personal to you, Mojo, and I think you know this. Also, if he were mopey about the D, you might doubt the wisdom of it. I predict that y'all will remain very close friends-- better friends than when you were married and trying to force each other into providing for each other what neither of you was equipped or willing to deliver. (Five bucks to anyone who can diagram that sentence.)