Not really. For me, I realized that I wanted us to work. My H was pushing for a D, and I didn't want it.
However, I know it took me a good 2 months to realize what a POS the om truly was.....those 2 months might've cost us our M. That hurt him more or almost as much as the actual act.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...