Not really. For me, I realized that I wanted us to work. My H was pushing for a D, and I didn't want it.

However, I know it took me a good 2 months to realize what a POS the om truly was.....those 2 months might've cost us our M. That hurt him more or almost as much as the actual act.


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

me=ok /D'd since 7/07
D=ok