Thanks for checking in. I hope YOU have fun at the wedding this weekend. One thing I've learned is that it's really MY responsibility to have fun at these functions, it's not up to W. I don't enjoy being a tag along at events like that, and I don't think W enjoy's me being her tag along. So my attitude going into these functions is, I'm gonna have a fun time whether I spend 5 minutes or 5 hours in the prescence of my W. Plus it's fun to mingle around and then just bump into her.
We went to a Christmas party, all couples, this year and we stuck together the whole time. It turned out to be very depressing because our, less than whole, R really stood out in OUR minds.
So go have a good time, be cordial to H, but don't expect him to make your night.
God Bless,
COG
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