I know it's more my issue at this point, she's broken all ties with him, except obviously when work calls for them to interact. It's just hard to ignore that voice in your head that tells you to protect yourself. As far as I know, she hasn't relapsed and talked to him. I've asked her if she's talked with him or seen him since their last phone conversation, she says "no". She told me she couldn't put me and everyone else through that again, which gave me a little confidence in her. Before this she was an extremely honest person, I truly believe she just got wrapped up in the confusion of the way OM made her feel. I have to keep my eye on the prize...I WILL marry this girl.