Thanks All,

I feel like I have been through the anger phase already over the summer. It is so sad to go back to it. It seemed like H and I were getting along so well. Is this cycling?

My H has been angry with d11 this past week. She is the one he has been latching on to because s14 is angry with him. He also has been accusing s14 of taking d11's cell phone since she can't find it. Little does he know how much s14 looked for it. I feel so bad for my kids but he is such a mess. Yesterday angry crying. Today aloof and short.

I am not sure where I am in this process with h. He still wants D. Still claims he is with MOW and is full of anger and blame. I don't think at this time I can work with him and s14's c but I know this will anger H as well. Once he calms down a bit, maybe then.

Thanks again.
Mopsey