I have down a complete 180 from who I was and know for a fact she won't find anybody else that has done the soul searching that I have and the rest of us on this board that work so hard to save our marriages. I am willing to show her a terrific realtionship but she neess to earn that back from me
I'm fairly sure that this is true. So make her work for it if she ever gets busy chasing you. Perhaps the odd way she's going about it is not a bad thing. Maybe she'll make an informed decision...and as you know, love is a choice, so maybe she'll make a choice and stick with it this time. Anyway, at this point she isn't ready and your life shouldn't be on hold.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
