Ok, I'm trying not to panic, but she's working with OM tonight. They'll be closing the store together, although their manager will also be there. Does her withdrawal from him start all over again when she sees him? I've read articles about infidelity on Marriage Builders, and that's what I gather from the info presented. I want to ask her to find a new job if she TRULY wants to see if we can make it, but I'm not in a position right now to put pressure on her to do anything. Ideas?