Hi mbw, thanks for your response. I feel bad cos I know I'm not very dedicated I tend to flit from one thing to another. We have been together for 17 years, but lived apart for 2 and only back together for 4 months. I wonder if he won't compromise and give himself because he's worried I'll be off again. But it ends up in a catch 22 situation he won't give any affection and I want to leave because of the lack of it.
