I've copied this from sexual issues, cos I don't think anyone actually reads there. I'd love your responses/suggestions.
So here I am, hanging on by my fingernails. Feeling more and more resentment at his lack of affection. He hasn't kissed, touched or even really looked at me for about a week. I had asked if we could have more affection, by at least kissing when he/me comes in or goes out and when we go to bed/wake up. I thought this might open the door a little to more opportunity. When I got back in yesterday evening he was getting in the shower and I jokingly called, you know what you say about why people shower in the afternoon...what says he, well I reminded him that one afternoon I was jumping in the shower when he got home from work, and he said "only one reason why people shower in the afternoon, it's always after sex" he was joking when he said this, and so was I when I mentioned it last night. Any way he just calls down, don't be so stupid! I go on to check my email and look around, (yeh, I know I shouldn't) and he's been watching porn.....I was sooo mad. I don't even mind porn, we used to watch it together, but that he can't be bothered with me but still getting off on porn is making my blood boil.
