Amen and amen. This is how my marriage started! And 8 years later... still the same. If I could do it all over again, I wished I could have read Michelle's books. I would highly recommend trying a divorce busting coach. I would but I don't have the money. There are many reasons men won't initiate or aren't interrested in sex that actually have NOTHING to do with you: Side effects of medications, low testosterone level, low self-esteem or poor body image, fear of not pleasing you, stress outside the bedroom, money issues, etc. 99% of a man's desire seems to be in his head. Just get help now... That's my advice because it definately doesn't get better by itself and please, please, please don't have kids until things are better between you. It makes it a little better initially and then it goes back to the same old thing but worse! Not to be negative, but the sooner you get help the better!
