He said he's seeing someone new

[Ophelia]

Thanks, 4ever.

It just seems like he ran out of our house and more or less straight to OW. How is that healthy? And how does an R that started like that even last this long? Shouldn't all of that initial euphoria of a new R junk be wearing off by now? If it hasn't, does that mean that I shouldn't bother clinging to any hope that it will burn out?

I've been considering sending him a letter for a couple of weeks now. I'm seriously considering including something about wanting to just know who it is and when they started going out, and explain that I don't want that info so I can throw it back in his face, I just want it for my own closure on the subject so I can stop wondering about it. I dunno if it's a good idea to ask though. It might just blow up in my face and make him angrier. I just don't know.

I don't know him at all anymore, it seems, and that breaks my heart. We were best of friends for 10 years, and now we're strangers.....and he doesn't seem to care about that. But he thinks everything is resolved and I just need to move on. But everything isn't resolved, so I can't move on.