Almost WAW - Do I need to reveal affair to H?

[Heywyre]

I have to agree with Theoden - you have never ended the A - whether it is EA or PA, it is still going on strong.

How can you really give your M a chance when the OM is still in the picture.

You say it is not an A but your H doesn't know about him. Well, those that have nothing to hide, hide nothing (as Dr. Phil would say). I am particularly fond of the guy but I have to say, that is one of his better lines. If your H doesn't know about the OM, you are having an A sweetheart - plain and simple!!