So now he wants me to visit him in the Bahamas in April. He will have been gone for 11 months in April.

For those of you that have been separated for about a year - what's it like to meet again?? We'll both be different, I know that. I just cannot imagine the scene - I am such a tolerable person (that's what he likes about me). But, I just can't sweep all the issues under the rug. When is the right time to bring up issues???

I want to have a nice vacation - I really need and greatly deserve one. Just feels like it will be so strange. He just dropped off the face of the earth and now he just wants back in my life (I think). He tried to find the nicest island for me.

He has not said anything about coming back to the states, although he has hinted about it several times.

Any advice??

Deb


Joy and Sorrow...when one sits alone with you at your board, remember the other is asleep upon your bed.
~Kahlil Gibran

Me: 46
H: 45
Married: 5.0+ years
Bomb: May 17, 2006
0 living children, 2 babies in heaven
1 dog, 2 cats