Then we parted ways and as the next song started, I looked around to find another victim, I mean partner, and my W was standing right in front of me with a look like "hey, what about me"??? It was perfect timing. So I grabbed her for another nice fun and hot dance.
Sounds like you really pressed her attraction buttons. Have you thought about looking at what it is about you that she finds attractive and doing those things more often?
As I look back through your thread I see a long time filled with patience and loving from you.
The 'stuck' point now seems to be the 'attraction' part. As a woman, she needs to be attracted to you in 'that way' and she's not getting the stimulation. When you were the 'dancing fool' the other night she saw you as 'attractive' because obviously other women 'wanted' you.
That's just one way to push her attraction buttons.
Another way is to be a little unpredictable, and a little 'naughty' in the way you talk to her. Like a bad little boy.
Being strong, showing leadership and most of all playing a little 'hard to get'. Women live for the chase. She has already 'caught' you.
Maybe you should start teasing a little and then backing off in a 'bad boy' sort of way? Perhaps adopting a slight 'You can't have me' attitude and letting it come out - just a little bit.
I really think that's where you're at. She's not feeling the attraction because YOU aren't pushing her buttons.
I was stuck in the same place and when I changed my attitude it made a difference. I got a lot from the articles at makingherhappy .
