cissy, I wouldn't think him coming home is a good idea right now. Especially since he answered your plea with a "I know." instead of "I WON'T!"
I've been where you are and believe me, if you don't think you know who he is and you can't trust him or forgive him yet, why would you want him back? It is only going to hurt even more to have him around.
Please reconsider this.
Me 31 WAH 30 M 5 Together 14 years S 4 divorced 7/11/07