To make a long story short... my H has been cheating on me since November 2005. I kicked him out twice because of it. He has been living with her in her apartment since June 2006. We have not had much contact with each other since June and things needless to say have been very touchy. We both blame each other for things.
He has said he would like to come home this Friday and I agreed. He said don't expect him to come home right from work everday, because he needs his space and want to go out for a couple of beers with his friends. I said, well, I asked, you are not going ot go out everyday are you? (which is what he has practically done for years) he said no. I then said (this is the big one for me) I do expect you to not cheat on me anymore. I expect you to end your relationship with the gf totally and completely before coming home on Friday. NO CONTACT. (I said this very nicely). He said, I know.
I have been reading the Divorce Remedy book, but does anybody foresee something that I would not know that has been through this before or any advice anyone can give me. Or maybe give me a "heads up" on how things may go at first. I don't have a clue how to handle this, I don't feel I know my H anymore, with all the lying and cheating and shear disrespect he has shown me over the past couple of years, but I am willing to give it my all. help? Than You.
