Maybe I should just keep my trap shut, but often on these BB's I hear people saying things like "she might finally be able to see what she's risking if she had to do without it for a while" but I've yet to hear someone come back and say "Hey, it worked! Try it." Now, maybe I missed something, but when you walk it should be because that's what YOU need to do, not for the R. That's MHO, of course, and I'm open to changing it! If confronting her about the emailing was mild, what were some of the more confrontative tactics suggested to you? Just interested cuz I'm feeling like a wimp compared to some of the DBers I hear out there! What else did DB coach suggest? And, why did you choose not to try those things? Not judging, again, just curious.