H living with OW Help with No contact??

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that's an awesome book sl, I love it. Another great book you need to read is "Love is tough" by J Dobson, it will explain you the whole "chasing" thing (pretty much, let him be in what mess he's put himself in and that you should find your confidence again).

Call him now and then. When my H was away I still invited him over to my family's outings, but I was very casual about it, like it wouldn't break my heart if he didnt come, keep your cool at all times.

Hang in there, I also found God again, and I think sometimes we need a wake up call like this to realize where we've gone wrong.

Another great read is For Women Only: What You Need to Know about the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn. Hang in there, it is a long ride, but you will be fine.