Hey there, all I can say is that you shouldn't married if you have misgiving about how the kids' attituted are being handled. If you feel it isn't right, (the way she is treated) chances right it will come up later and will create more problems between you two. If you don't agree with the way she is proposing things will be, then think this stich very good.
ADD people are on a league of their own, it can be very frustrating to live w/them, but they also have their good sides. My H is ADHD, so I can half imagen what kind of things your sd does. I think it will be very beneficial if you read about ADD/ADHD,the best book out there is "driven to distraction", takea look at it.
And yes, girls are way more emotional and are more work, I have a boy and an girl, and as little as she is I can see my work is already cut out for me :P
Also, 13 I think is the worst age, kids are rebels without a cause!
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
