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[Kim07]

Yep!! My H would say, if I said that, "go ahead and do what you gotta do, I only want you to be happy!" After getting completely pissed off, did I realize that its' a game that we're playing w/o saying the words!!

Unfortunately only 2 senerios,,either trying to get you to say, "Please, I don't want you to leave, I'm willing to do what ever it takes to save this M!" or She wants you to initiate the Sep. or D b/c: A.) Shes' lazy, B.) Financial reasons, or C.) She likes playing games,,,I just don't know in your sitch!

For what its' worth, my H sounds just like ur W,,,unapologetic and blameless-it takes too!
Good-luck & I just learned this, "the coolest head prevails"!