The card is in his name only. It was taken out in the late 80's (by him)at the bank I used to work at. This was a time when we were first married and H spent all of his time partying with his friends. It was very stressful. This is his card though. He signed for it. Unfortunately the bank doesn't have the application anymore since the card has been sold so many times. H just won't take any accountability.
I have a session with my IC tomorrow. I think you are right. Although s14's c thinks we need to really move ahead with closure on our situation, I feel like H anger is just going to keep cropping up. I think after my appt. tomorrow I will call s14's c and suggest that he meet alone with H while he is in this anger/blame mode. It is not good for me or the kids if I am constantly a target.
Snodderly, he sounds so down. Said tomorrow is his b-day and he will be spending it alone. He said he doesn't want the gift we bought him. Says I don't understand the pain he is in. Is he close to rock bottom or is he just playing with my head He told C yesterday that he is still planning to go ahead with D and that he is still with MOW. Do I believe this or not?
I have to detach and put him to the side but this hurts so much.
