Should I completely disengage myself from the entire sitch, yet still try to DB? I guess what I mean is, look at her as a roommate for now, not bringing up anything related to "us"? Should I stop asking her to participate in going out on weekends, and let her ask me if she wants? I need to find the strength to look toward the end result, not the instant gratification of "talking", or hugging, or asking her to go to lunch w/ me, knowing that she doesn't want to...