He cannot get over the OW help us...

[*KS*Chick*]

I think you're doing good. I would have mouthed the same thing...or jumped out of the car and commenced to an @$$ kicking....but that's the fleshy part of me

[Heartbroken]

Thanks to LOlive and UA!!! I cannot believe how I have come to need this group!

UA - I totally relate to you and all the music lyrics you have in your posting!! I read you story yesterday and you seem to have come so far yourself. I am listnening to the DAUGHTRY album right NOW!!

I know I just need patience and then more patience. I compiled a list of what I want to accomplish at home this week/weekend. I invited myself along with 4 girls to go out to dinner Friday nite since the kids a staying with him. I have a workshop to attend Sat from 9-3 or so and then the house could use some attention. I can keep myself busy. I just need to outwait the Ow cuz she will get bored and needy rather quickly. Hard to have fun in a 1 BR with 6 local stations!! He says he has no plans to run around town with her but then what can I believe from him. I did say that his children think he's trying to figure himself out and they would not understand him on a date especially with a "friend" of mine...Ultimately if he chooses her he may have to choose his daughter - I cannot see her wanting to do anything with Ow since she helped break up our family....

She stared me down this morning like this was a challenge! I told the husband she did not seem too afraid of me like she acts with him. I know she thinks he is the prize in all of this, she went ahead and file D when my H gave me the note in August that he was unhappy and now her D was final this Friday. She moved so fast assuming H would follow her lead. H doubts have messed up her plans big time...too bad she isn't living in reality either....I wish one of them would just wake up!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for your support!

[*KS*Chick*]

oh that's kind of funny -- he didn't follow her lead like she expected

patience is the hard part.

[lovelyolive]

Everyone keeps talking about Daughtry... I need to get that CD.. sounds awesome!

OW filed for D right after I found out about A. She has always made it clear that she wants them to be together.. get married.. live happily ever after. My H hasn't followed OW lead either.. haha! Guess we have to be thankful for that, right??!

[*KS*Chick*]

Daughtry IS one awesome CD!!

And I say chalk up a + to the H's who haven't followed the OW's leads!

[Heartbroken]

When I asked H if he told Ow that he had sex with me last Friday - he said he was taken aback by the question. Like I was going to hold it over his head or something....Ironic he now feels he's cheating on the Ow. This is true soap opera material!! I may have a best seller on my hands!!

[*KS*Chick*]

write it all down and send it to Danielle Steele!

[theoden]

Heartbroken,

Yeah baby....soap opera.

She stared you down, why? Because you are a threat.

And you are a threat to her. How do I know, you just slept with boyfriend, who happens to be your husband.

You are a threat baby. Just don't cry to your husband when she stares you down. Be strong, be bold, be seductive.

--Thdoen

[Heartbroken]

Thanks for the ego boost! H is just dropping off the kids tonight - no going in the house. He really needs some alone time to think of what he's willing to give up!!

[*KS*Chick*]

that might be a good thing ... for both of you.