I know.. you're right.. Like you said - it all just sucks!!
I do have a snooping problem. I feel like there are so many lies and that's the only way to find out what is really going on. On second thought - that may not even be a good gauge of reality since he is probably lying to her to keep her hanging on, too. hmmm...Well, at least I just walked out of the room yesterday and didn't say anything more about it.