H just called. Said he spoke to cc company and this is an account from 1990. Then he says ....you betrayed me back then and opened an account in my name without me knowing. I could scream. I can't believe he has no recollection of this account and now I am blamed. I tried not to get into it with H. He was lashing out and was out of control. This account is old, but it was opened by H. I just have not been able to pay the bills since he has left.
Anyway, he was a mess. Crying, screaming....you name it. I tried to explain to H but he wanted to hear nothing. I told him that he can't use this for justification for what he is doing. All he wants to do is find ways to show that he is right for leaving.
All I can say is this situation is out of control. His way of thinking is so distorted it is not funny. It is sad. I do not know how my h will ever come through this. If any one out there has gone through anything this BAD please let me know.
