Thanks Nicky. Yes, my D is 3, 4 next month. She seems to be coping ok during the day, although is a bit clingy, but it's at night we have the problems. I have been trying to get her to talk and role play as much as possible but it's heart breaking. I can forgive the trauma W put me through to a certain extent but am finding it harder re: D.
Any thoughts from anyone about which part of replay she might be in as I'm not sure I know the stages of replay. Are there several?