He cannot get over the OW help us...

[Heartbroken]

Thanks to LOlive and UA!!! I cannot believe how I have come to need this group!

UA - I totally relate to you and all the music lyrics you have in your posting!! I read you story yesterday and you seem to have come so far yourself. I am listnening to the DAUGHTRY album right NOW!!

I know I just need patience and then more patience. I compiled a list of what I want to accomplish at home this week/weekend. I invited myself along with 4 girls to go out to dinner Friday nite since the kids a staying with him. I have a workshop to attend Sat from 9-3 or so and then the house could use some attention. I can keep myself busy. I just need to outwait the Ow cuz she will get bored and needy rather quickly. Hard to have fun in a 1 BR with 6 local stations!! He says he has no plans to run around town with her but then what can I believe from him. I did say that his children think he's trying to figure himself out and they would not understand him on a date especially with a "friend" of mine...Ultimately if he chooses her he may have to choose his daughter - I cannot see her wanting to do anything with Ow since she helped break up our family....

She stared me down this morning like this was a challenge! I told the husband she did not seem too afraid of me like she acts with him. I know she thinks he is the prize in all of this, she went ahead and file D when my H gave me the note in August that he was unhappy and now her D was final this Friday. She moved so fast assuming H would follow her lead. H doubts have messed up her plans big time...too bad she isn't living in reality either....I wish one of them would just wake up!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for your support!