Thanks for all the support yesterday, guys. This truly is a rollercoaster. I haven't had an emotionally draining day like that in weeks. I've read DR, and I'm trying to put the techniques to use, I just feel like she's going to run the other way if I pull back too much. The MC told me last night that I had to give her time/space, not question her so much, etc. Basically the same things you guys are telling me! The MC pointed out that we had the most forward progress when she was borrowing DR, staying w/ her parent's, and having no contact with me for 2 days. Something to think about...