This is a-w-e-s-o-m-e my friend!! Your H gets brownie points...BIG TIME!!
Yes he does deserve some brownie points!
We had a little chat about the ML sitch last night in bed. H sensed something was wrong I think and asked me what I wanted to ask (he can read me like a book). He said some very positive things. He had been talking about a holiday earlier in the evening and pointed out that it is a good sign because he's talking about the future. (sure he's been reading DR because it says that in there!!) He said that if things keep improving like they are there is no doubt in his mind we will get to the point where we ML as if you are happy with something (meaning me) why would you want to get rid of it. He also said that he likes cuddling up to me and that it feels like home now! (that brought a tear to my eye) I asked if he thought I was being impatient and he said no he knows I just want things to be normal again and I said I just want him to take me in his arms and love me (I know not good DBg) and he said he does love me. Does that count as saying ILY do you think - I think its pretty close.
So very positive vibes coming from my H. I said I'm scared I'm going to mess things up because of how no kissing or ML makes me feel and he said I won't. I wish I knew what he knows because he seems so happy with how things are like he knows it will all be OK and yet I still feel terrified it won't be.
Oh and he deserves more brownie points for yesterday because he tidied the dinner pots while I bathed S - without being asked again!!
Yes he does deserve some brownie points!