I think this is where I belong

[nickyf]

Jbf

I have not posted to you before but wanted to say that i am so sorry you find yourself here. I am right in think that your D is 3 yrs old?, if so i can relate as my D will be 3 in June. It is so hard on these children and the MLCers fail to fully realise the consequencies of thier action for all involved. Although my D2 has not shown signs of nightmares, she has definantely become more clingy to me.

It always seems so much worse when the mother is the one that leaves, being a mother myself i can't begin to understand. This is where i see definate signs that you wife is in MLC, along with the sefish ME ME ME! mode.

I think your doing a great job taking care of your D and please remember there is always hope.

Nicky