After 3 good nights without having nightmares, D had a terrible one last night and we were both up most of the night. I had thought that if she was better last night I would suggest W saw her on Wednesday or Thursday but I'm not sure now as I don't want to make things even worse.

I'm a bit confused about having contact with W myself. So far I've kept it to a minimum and used my mum where I could to hand over D. Last week W suggested we went for a coffee this week and I said I'd think about it, but I haven't got back to her. As she's still seeing OM and we can handle business conversations via email or text, I'm not even sure what we'd talk about.

I'm a bit confused about her replay any way. She is in total selfish mode but when I see her it's clear she's also sad and subdued. She is very negative and most of her texts seem to be asking for me to feel sorry for her. Even when I'm not there, my mum says she's subdued and sad, including with D. Will this be guilt, most likely? Will she get worse?

There is no evidence that she's having second thoughts, I don't think. Are there any vets out there with a view?